我的生日願望 ｜ My Birthday Wishes
我發現人大了，偶像自然會由明星，歷史偉人變為自己父母。因為屈指一算，養育孩子的投資和回報根本不成正比。供書教學，養育扶持，投資時間跟金錢難以估算。就算孩子成才，他們除了有你兩位高堂，還有妻房要照顧，天價磚頭要課金。養育孩子的金錢回報，最好別去奢望。孩子欠父母的，一輩子都還不完。而父母真正想要的，往往比想像的是樸實而簡單。
1. 孩子的陪伴和關心
2. 看見孩子快樂安穩
世風日下，每日都可能是最後一日。活在當下，珍惜擁有是渺小的我唯一能做到的事。每晚一句我愛你，一番攀談交心，一年一次陪兩老去旅個行、盡個孝道還是能做到的。
孝道有如工作，除了用心了解客戶需要，還要應酬交際，偶爾互寸更添情趣。舉個例子，陪兩老去旅行，不是一件輕鬆的事。事前準備，教他們使用不同旅遊apps，預約導賞團；到埗後，當然是帶他們去飲飲食食同時考慮他們的體力跟喜好，晚上去個Bar、喝杯威士忌當然免問。同時也擔當隨身攝影大師，紀錄一下他倆的點滴；回港後，當然整理好照片，調色修圖，讓大家雲端共享。 .
這年的生日的願望，還是希望父母幸福。雖已白髮齊眉，也不妨再來個百年好合。
When we grow up, our idols will naturally change from pop stars, saints to our parents. Because we know that raising a kid is a risky investment in terms of financial decisions. School fees, daily expenses, talent development and health care need to input countless of time and money. Even if the child becomes successful, apart from raising their parents, he also has his own family to feed, housing debt to pay. To be honest, the child can never ever clear the debts from parents, we all owe our parents for a lifetime. Yet, what parents really want is way simpler than what we imagine. 1. Your companionship and care 2. Your happiness and safety . In this terrifying era, every day could be our last day. So, seize the day. Telling them I love you 3000 every night, closely communicate with them, travel with them once a year is my basic way to treat them with filial piety. . Filial piety is like work. Apart from thoughtfully understanding your client's needs, we also need to social and mangle with them. For example, travelling with parents is not an easy task. Before the trip, you need to teach them to use different travel apps and make appointments for guided tours. After landing, of course, bring them to a nice restaurant while considering their physical strength and tasting preferences. Go to the bar on my checklist and have a dram of whisky is not an option for sure. At the same time, I would be their personal photographer, capturing their moments. After returning to Hong Kong, without doubt, edit and retouch those photos, color correction, and share with them in the cloud. . My birthday wishes are the happiness of my parents. Although they are a pair of the great couple for decades, why not being an epic one for centuries.
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